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WHEN WILL YOU BECOME THE MAN YOU'RE MEANT TO BE?

 

 

 

 

Access My Free Reignite Your Fire Training and Start Building The Mission, Marriage and Life You Crave: 

🔥 I'M READY - LIGHT ME UP 🔥

 

WHEN WILL YOU BECOME THE MAN YOU'RE MEANT TO BE?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Access My Free Reignite Your Fire Training and Start Building The Mission, Marriage and Life You Crave: 

🔥 I'm Ready - Light Me Up 🔥

The demands on today's fathers are greater than ever before in human history:

 

excelling at work, providing financially, being an engaged dad and loving partner, maintaining your home, serving your community and the countless other responsibilities you carry. 

 

As a dedicated family man, it's easy to find yourself asking:

"Is this really it? I thought my life would be different by now. I thought things would be better."

Our culture feeds us a lie ...

... that, as men, we have to go it alone. Not physically alone. But alone in the journey, the challenges and even the triumphs. 

 

And so, we struggle in silence.

 

We don't realize how many other men share in our dark nights. And in the feeling of being trapped or stuck.

In our world today, we aren't given the tools and the support to skillfully navigate the challenges we face as men, to embrace the discomfort required for growth and to create lives of meaning and joy.

 

Instead, we're encouraged to pursue short-term freedom and pleasure, or to numb out.

 

So men use work, TV, social media, alcohol, drugs, porn, expensive toys and adrenaline to distract themselves from the pain they feel or to temporarily lift their mood.

 

But these distractions keep you playing small, disconnected from your true power, and feeling that something is missing.

Are You Hungry For a Change?

  • Do you want to feel greater aliveness?

  • Do you want to unlock your potential? 

  • Do you want to build a life of purpose and passion?

  • Do you want greater love, connection and depth in your marriage and family life?

  • Do you want to take your game to the next level as a man?

     

Let's Work Together

The New King

A powerful 10-week online program designed to help busy fathers reignite their fire and build lives of purpose and passion

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RVA Men's Group

An in-person men's group for dads to get real about the challenges they face and learn tools and practices to grow as men, husbands and fathers

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Personal Coaching

Tailored support to unlock your potential and take your game to the next level

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Testimonials

Participating in the group has given me a feeling of strength and aliveness, that I am supported in my daily struggles, and a reinforced determination to lean into my edges, becoming a better man, husband and father in the process.

Tom Crate

Denmark

Jai brings many gifts to men's work - deep practice, warm intelligence and solid-oak trustability. In the program I attend, he has created a safe and integral container. Under his meticulous leadership, my brothers and I are finding ever greater authenticity and vulnerability - a deeper experience of ourselves and our value on this planet as men.

Speed Weed

California

The group container that Jai created and leads has been one of the most beneficial and impactful aspects of my already rich and profound journey. It's brought me into a deeper knowing of myself and connected me with support and resources which have inspired me to engage more fully in my relationships and the world in general. I'm grateful for the openheartedness and strength of the men in the group which Jai attracted. They are a constant source of inspiration and brotherhood driving each other forward and lifting us all higher.

Craig Marchand

Canada

My participation in Jai's group work has led to a clarity of purpose and a deeper connection with male community. His leadership has been a tremendous catalyst for my growth over this year. I find that with this continued work, I am showing up in all the roles in my life with an authentic, compassionate masculinity that has me leading by example. 

Brandon Harris

Virginia

I was suprised how quickly the program impacted my life. I now actively crave our meetings and connecting with the other men. It is somewhat extraordinary that a group of strangers can bond so deeply. Thank you, Jai, for your leadership and vision of what a men's program can do.

Henry French

Connecticut

Jai has a rare mixture of incisiveness and openheartedness that makes for a great leader. Taking part in our men's group, he makes me feel known, valued, and held on a level that is hard to find. I am eager whenever he offers insight or empathy, because it always comes from a place of deep knowing and compassion. He knows when to challenge and when to hold. Knowing him and doing this work has made me more of the man I want to be.

Paul Stavropoulous

California

My Own Journey 

I'm Jai Singh. I'm married and the father of two kids. 

 

Fatherhood and marriage have been a humbling crucible for me, repeatedly melting me down and forging me into a stronger and sharper man. 

 

Early in fatherhood, I found myself lacking the tools, habits and support to create the life I desired. Fatherhood was a pressure cooker for me, exposing the unsupportive beliefs, patterns and behaviors that I carried but that no longer served me or my family. 

 

I had a tendency to self-sacrifice, putting the needs of everyone else in my family first. And I expected my wife to know what I needed rather than take responsibility for myself, my wellbeing and my emotional state.

4 Years Into Fatherhood, I Reached a Low Point

I was exhausted and sleep deprived, finally forced to confront the very real limitations in my physical energy.

 

I was out of shape and struggling to take proper care of myself. 

 

I was stressed about our finances and the ever-rising cost of living of a growing family.

 

I felt I didn't have the time for anything that really mattered to me.

 

I felt resentful towards my wife, that she didn't truly see and appreciate everything I was doing to support our family and show up as a father. 

 

I felt alone, uninspired and burned out.

 

I felt trapped in a life that I didn't like.

I knew I wanted to make a change.

I wanted to feel alive again. I wanted to create a life that I was genuinely excited about and felt proud of. 

 

But I felt stuck. 

 

Any time I tried to make a change, I felt like I'd get knocked off course by life's curveballs and the intensity of fatherhood: the kids getting sick, an unexpected major home expense, all-consuming proposal deadlines for my work ...

But then, something finally shifted. I found the right combination of factors to help me pivot.

Within a few months, I felt a fire roaring inside of me. I finally started taking serious action on a calling in my heart that I had ignored for years.

 

One small action after another - I felt like I was steering the ship of my life again. 

 

I was showing up happier, more resourced and more grounded for my family.

 

Fast forward to today, I feel more enlivened and fulfilled by my life than ever before!

 

Are marriage and fatherhood still a humbling crucible for me? Absolutely. But my relationship with them has fundamentally changed: I see them as powerful mirrors showing me where I need to continue growing as a man.

 

Now I help men build more purposeful lives, take better care of themselves and show up more fully for their families.

 

WAYS TO GROW WITH JAI

 

The New King

A powerful 10-week online program designed to help busy fathers reignite their fire and build lives of purpose and passion

LEARN MORE

RVA Men's Group

An in-person men's group for dads to get real about the challenges they face and learn tools and practices to grow as men, husbands and fathers

LEARN MORE

Personal Coaching

Tailored support to unlock your potential and take your game to the next level

LEARN MORE

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Resources and inspiration to reignite your inner fire

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